And now… a rant. (Bear with me, I haven’t had one in a while.)
As summer approaches I’m hearing the usual clamor from the weight
loss/diet/fitness industry about getting our bodies “beach-worthy” for the warm
weather that is approaching. I really
don’t like the term “beach body” as it applies to fitness. It implies that only bodies which are a
certain size and shape (due to the strict discipline of their owners or THIS
amazing diet product!) are worthy of the fun and relaxing activities, and small
clothing volumes, that beaches provide.
To me a beach body is, quite simply, a body of any size or shape which
happens to currently be located on a beach.
You don’t have to earn fun in the sun by being muscular or cut or
slender or by having huge boobs to fill out a bikini top, you just have to be
there. Period.
When I reach my goal weight I will still not have what American culture
is talking about when it refers to a “beach body”. I will carry scars which, unless surgically
removed, are likely to stay with me for life.
There’s an adage that goes: having
forgiveness does not mean you don’t have to live with the consequences of your
mistakes. Just so, my body may
forgive me for taking it to almost 300 pounds by taking those pounds back off and eventually getting to a state of glowing
good health, but that doesn’t mean I won’t have to live with the physical
consequences of having once been that weight.
The scars will probably hang in soft, loose folds of flesh that will forever bar
me from having a classic “beach-worthy body".
And just as I did when I was pounds upon pounds heavier, I will continue
to put on a swimsuit and swim and go to the beach. As always, if the sight of me is offensive to
people they can feel free not to look.
Here's my beach body from a few year's ago (2008 - when I was probably at my heaviest), having fun with my friends while building a sand castle. Nobody went blind from the sight of my large, pale thighs, and nobody stopped me at the gate and refused me entrance for not having the right kind of "beach body" for the beach I was on. If I look cute, happy and playful in this picture, it's because I was.
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